Household Manager & Family Assistant (with Childcare and Meal Prep Support)
Quick Summary
Household Manager & Family Assistant (with Childcare and Meal Prep Support) Location: Primarily based in Rumson, NJ 07760, with seasonal time in Mantoloking, NJ 08738.
Responsibilities
~1 min read- →Not a full-time nanny role; childcare is part of a broader household management position
- →Not a deep-cleaning role; professional cleaners are in place
- →Not a passive, task-based role; requires proactive ownership and initiative
- →Not a 9-to-5 static routine; priorities shift with the family’s needs
- Manage safe and reliable transportation for school and extracurricular activities, including pick-ups, ensuring smooth and timely transitions throughout the day
- Provide attentive afternoon care for three children, maintaining a consistent after-school routine
- Support positive behavior and age-appropriate independence by reinforcing established household routines and visual chore chart systems, offering calm, consistent guidance and redirection as needed
- Prep backpacks, clothing, and snacks daily
- Kid-related errands
- Coordinate and communicate with extended family during the parents’ work travel to support smooth day-to-day continuity and consistent household routines.
- Occasional drop-off coverage when parents have early morning work commitments
- Maintain and actively improve existing household organization systems
- Daily resets and prep home for cleaners (1x weekly)
- Light tidying throughout the home: dishes, surfaces, high-traffic areas
- Seasonal swaps: clothing, décor, bedding; donate and coordinate drop-offs
- Event, holiday, and guest preparation
- Packing and unpacking support for travel
- Recycling and trash management, including ensuring bins are at the curb on the appropriate pickup schedule
- Change batteries, light bulbs, and smoke detectors as needed
- Prepare school lunches five days per week for all three children
- Prepare simple, healthy dinners for the children
- Light meal prep for the parents (e.g., quick healthy options; proactive, not elaborate)
- Prepare healthy snacks
- Support with weekly and monthly meal planning; generate grocery lists
- Kitchen clean-up and maintenance
- Wash, fold, and organize family laundry
- Ironing, steaming, and special garment care as needed
- Maintain a tidy and well-stocked laundry area
- Restock pantry, fridge, and household supplies
- Manage running inventory lists
- Errands: dry cleaning, returns, gift shopping, household supplies
- Mail and package handling; break down boxes as needed
- Fueling/cleaning/organizing vehicles, including daily removal of items from the family vehicle after school pickups
- Weekly interior wipe-down of the family vehicle
- Schedule vehicle maintenance and track registration as needed
- Serve as the on-site point of contact for house cleaners, landscapers, and contractors
- Seasonal outdoor furniture care
- Role covers both the primary residence and the summer property; responsibilities remain consistent across both locations
- Weekly wipe-down of refrigerator interior
- Quarterly deep clean of oven
- Refresh and maintain key areas of the home, including the mudroom, entryway, kids’ play areas, and foyer, ensuring these spaces remain organized, tidy, and guest-ready throughout the day.
- Clean humidifiers and air purifiers as needed
- Organizational projects: toys, gear rotations, closets, drawers
- Calendar management and appointment booking for the household
- Receipt and budget tracking for expenses incurred as house manager
- Event and appointment coordination, including school events, activities, and children's birthday parties
- Monthly planning check-ins with the parents regarding meals, tasks, and upcoming needs
To be considered for this role, please submit a short intro letter, an updated resume, and three professional references with contact information.
Employment is contingent upon a background check and pre-employment drug screening.
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Listing Details
- Posted
- July 10, 2026
- First seen
- September 28, 2026
- Last seen
- September 30, 2026
Posting Health
- Days active
- 1
- Repost count
- 1
- Trust Level
- 20%
- Scored at
- September 30, 2026
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